
Story #2: If you do it well, working with the public builds empathy
Glen S. currently works as a visual designer. Before that, he worked in retail for several years, selling clothes at Ben Sherman in New York and musical equipment at Guitar Center.
When asked if his experience in retail helped him in his current role, he said, “One hundred percent. If it wasn’t for retail I wouldn’t know how to speak to people. In retail, you have to build trust with complete and absolute strangers. You have to learn empathy.”
Glen had one encounter that taught him the importance of putting in the effort to work out misunderstandings.
This is when I was working at Guitar Center. It was a slow day. I was chatting with a coworker when a kid walked into the store. I asked if he needed any help. When he didn’t answer, I kind of gave a shrug. I didn’t think anything of it, until the boy’s mother walked up to me. She was really upset. She thought I was being mean to her son.
Glen spoke to her and found out that the boy was autistic. He had trouble using social skills and people were often mean to him because of it. Glen listened and the mother saw that he wasn’t targeting her kid. It took just a little effort, and the situation turn around quickly. Glen says, “There ended up being a good outcome. They bought some things and left laughing and smiling.”
Glen says that one of the difficulties of working in retail is that “if people are having a bad day, they take it out on you.” You have to learn to turn those situations around.
Glen sees this same type of thing happen in his current role. Now, when colleagues get upset, he responds the way he did to the woman at Guitar Center. He listens, tries to diffuse the situation, and looks for ways to find a positive outcome for both parties.
A lot of Glen’s retail experience involved direct sales with commissions. He said working in this model taught him to present himself well and how “not to be a jerk,” when you’re trying to make a sale. He sees his work in design in a similar light. Except now, when he’s presenting his work to large companies, he’s selling his own expertise.
From what Glen has observed, hiring managers see retail experience as “a benefit, and not a strike.” He personally values previous experience in retail. He says, “I prefer you went through the gauntlet, learned how to be the dartboard. I ask people directly, ‘Have you ever worked in retail?’ I think it’s important. It’s applied experience.”