What comes to mind when you hear the word “salesperson”? Do you imagine someone who’s pushy, aggressive, or unwilling to take no for an answer? Someone trying to get you to buy something you don’t need? We’ve all encountered salespeople like that. Selling yourself in the job market doesn’t mean you have to act that way. There is a different kind of selling that’s more about connecting and authenticity than making a quick sale.
Steve works as a Fidelity retirement director and workplace investing sales manager. He says, “Some of the best sales managers that I’ve ever had are the folks that speak the least amount.”
Those sales managers listen to what the other person needs. They allow the person they’re selling to do most of the talking. This approach often translates into not just more sales, but better sales—the kind of sales where everyone wins and the relationship continues.
This is the kind of thinking that will help you sell yourself in the job market.
A new way to think about selling yourself
When we talk about selling yourself in your job search, we’re talking about:
- Recognizing that you have something valuable to offer an employer.
- Having the confidence to let people know about your skills and talents.
- Becoming aware of opportunities to position yourself in the best, most authentic light.
Think of it this way: You are a treasure chest of your life experiences, knowledge, skills, and insights. Hiding those treasures away is a shame. Nobody wants to see human potential go untapped.
You’re doing the world a favor by learning to toot your own horn—at least a little. We’re not talking about being obnoxious or boastful. Just being confident in your unique value.
When you feel yourself fading into the shadows, remember there is someone, in some organization who needs exactly what you have to offer. Think about how putting yourself out there helps them.
Going forward, remember that selling yourself can be about being exactly who you are. It can be about authenticity, shining your light, and putting your talents to use for the betterment of yourself and others.





